Hey world

Ok so today is one of those days where I am not doing anything but I'm feeling good about things. It happens to be my moms bday and I am blessed enough to be a in good mental place to deal with it in a good way. I miss her very much but I am not going to blog about that. This weekend has been nice its raining here but all in all its a peacefull weekend. I have a lot to do this upcoming week and I am looking forward to new things. I have decided to not look at blogs or pages of past people because really some people are meaningless to me and whats in the past needs to be left there its like once you throw out the trash you don't go get it you leave that shit in the garbarge, so I am leaving the trash where it belongs. In other news Kandi from House wives of atl was killed last night in a club he was working on and thats terrible. Life is so short too short to have ill feelings. Kandies mom on the show had a problem with him because he had 6 kids by like 4 different women and I have to say I had my feelings about it too but who can say why he wasnt with them and why it didnt work out and maybe he was a player at that time but maybe he found the right woman or maybe he was at a point in his life where he was ready to makes changes for himself. See people cant be judge by their past errors they may have made they really have to be taken for face vaule until they do something directly to you to prove who they are now. Some are ready for change and some are still climbing the latter. Its sad she lost him in that way and thats another sign that we all need to look at every day as our last and should not hold onto ill feelings about poeple. I personally realized if I can not hate my father, not hate the father of my children then there is nothing more anyone can do to me to make me hate them. I am a very forgiving person, yea imma be mad for a while but for the most part I have an open heart I guess thats the virgo in me I don't like to admit. So everyone have a blessed night. Kiss the ones you love and remember to whisper I love you, to the ones who arent with you at this present moment. I will make sure I say a prayer for you all who read and those who don't .......Im imma go play pacman with the kids we got a battle going on in here at 10:45pm lol