Thin water

Hello blogger I am coming to you to just go over somethings that have crossed my mind. I am sitting here watching whats love gotta to with it and I love this movie. With the past I have had you would think this movie bothers me but really it doesn't because in the end everything goes the right way. I have to wonder is that how my life is going to be, in the end everything will go the right way. People stay in the wrong relationships for all the right reasons. Most stay because of the kids or because they love the person even tho the person isnt for them. You spend days and days trying to figure out why you stay and then days convincing yourself to leave. Making a decision to leave someone is a very hard one and harder when you feel like you will never be loved by someone like your current mate loves you. When youre in something and there is no love or no anything its much easier to leave then if the love is there yet the person just isnt healthy for you. I have personally done the relationship thing with a few people and it all ended yet for some reason we can still be friends today. I have had people do bad stuff to me and I have done bad stuff to others and everyone involved makes excuses for the other when really none of it had to happen. I am in a better place now that I can say when I am wrong and not make excuses. If I cheat, there is no excuse for it just as well if you cheat on me there is no excuse, same goes for putting your hands on someone, drunk, high...it doesnt matter when you feel the need to hit then you feel the need to leave. I was talking to Key and she was saying how she isnt willing to settle. Thats the biggest thing in life people have a problem with, call it picky call it selfish but we shouldnt have to settle we should have the right to go get exactly what we want from another person. I would hate for someone to be with me and feel like they are settling . I know what I want from my mate, I know what I desire, I know what I want to look forward to in the future, if the person I am with does not have the same goals in mind then our relationship will just be that, it will never been anything more like a true commitment. Well I am going to finish watching this movie....Until next time.................