Why me???

Ok so something really wrong happened over the weekend and of course I can't go into the specifics of it but it involves someone who its really in my life anymore but damn it caused me to really think about some things. See my life goes in a real pattern and its a pattern thats so hard to break. In this situation I didnt do anything wrong but what was done to me makes me take a look and say why, why me? why do things like this happen to me.....hmm.....who knows but its something that I am working on. sometimes you cant always blame the person who is doing something to you if they have done it before you have to take a look at yourself and ask why involve yourself with someone who is toxic to your life. I have gotten rid of a lot of poeple and some think its because of my girl and in some ways it is only because she is helping me to see who is not needed in my life and who is only here to just cause trouble. I have an ex that did the same thing but I didnt listen to her and now her and I no longer speak and thats sad because we have history but I will continue to live and learn. You have to treat people the way you want to be treated no matter what. I am growing up now in my old age lmao but thats ok because there are people twice my age who still dont get it. My whole point here was just to talk about the fact that I am tired of random things happeneing to me when I know I am on the right path trying to do the right thing and only involve myself with the right people but some still see me as who I used to be and will try their best to take advantage of that any chance they get. Only difference now is I wont do it, I wont do what you want me to do to, I wont do what you expect me to do, so all I ask is that you respect me for who I am now..and dont disrepect who I was then. Ok I am off to work now....